I had an interesting conversation with a friend today. We both have numerous creative urges in life, as well as a fair amount of visible energy. At one point our talk turned toward: the question of sharing your experiences with others. Can you ever effectively 'tell' someone something (insight of any kind) and have it actually be helpful? Is there a point in doing this? After all, you can't make someone be where they're not. You can't make someone feel or understand something they just don't. You know the saying about bringing a horse to water! And -- who's to say we're 'right' anyhow? It's a quandary when you have urges to help, urges to share.
However, that being said -- preaching sucks! Who seriously listens to someone who is preaching, ranting or otherwise shoving their insights down your throat? Not me. I usually view that as an indicator to run away, directly. Nothing is more exhausting and uninspiring that an exasperated person in your face, lecturing you!
So what do we do? I've encountered this issue since I started doing talks about meditation. At first I thought -- who am I to tell anyone else what to do? And -- everyone knows that preaching at people never helps! Thankfully, after my first talk, an awfully nice man named George stood up and reeled off a nifty list of compliments to me, ending with "and it's very obvious that you practice what you preach".
An AHA! moment for me, for sure! I realized then (and remember it some of the time) that when we have a genuine passion for something, anything, it is ALWAYS highly apparent to others. When we live true to our passions, in any area, it is inevitably an inspiration to others, without even trying to draw attention to it. Hmmmmmm.
What if the next time we see something that we believe is wrong, or needs to be changed or fixed or helped -- what if we stop and take a breath and remember that the best way -- the only way -- that we can really help others and affect change for good is to follow the passions of our souls and live by example? I think we all know the beautiful quote from Mahatma Gandhi --
"Be the change you want to see in the world."
Okay, okay, I'll stop before I get too preachy. Happy spring -- asparagus and strawberries are on the way!
Love from the hammock --
MJ
